Jes McCauley started a Memory Cafe at the Franklin Avenue Library and now helps run the monthly program.
Writer: Hailey Allen
Photos: Duane Tinkey
Jes McCauley first learned about memory cafes a couple of years ago at an American Library Association conference in Chicago. She attended a lecture on the topic and was inspired by what she learned.
A memory cafe is a space dedicated to folks living with Alzheimer’s disease, dementia or other cognitive impairments, and those who care for them. “It’s a space for people to feel safe, with no stigma, to just connect with others and have fun,” McCauley said.
McCauley is the adult services librarian at the Des Moines Public Library on Franklin Avenue, so she’s often on the lookout for ways the library can better serve its older patrons. As soon as she heard about memory cafes, she knew she wanted to set one up in her library. Keri Jacobson, her counterpart at the North Side Library, jumped in to help coordinate a cafe at that location, too.
Currently, a Memory Cafe pops up once a month, alternating between the Franklin Avenue and North Side libraries. Sometimes there are planned social activities, like an Iowa-themed trivia game that prompted participants to gather around old local newspapers and yearbooks to reminisce. Other times, there are simple yard games or puzzles, and there are always snacks and coffee. Visitors can engage as much or as little as they like, without any pressure or expectation.
One participant and his family recently enjoyed a whole afternoon together. Others come solo or with their caregivers and chat with the librarians, who say even the smallest interactions can be empowering.
“The biggest thing is not requiring a diagnosis at the door. That’s not the point. It’s also not a support group, by any means,” McCauley said. “It’s more like a break in the day, a place to sit and chill where nobody will ask you about your illness.”
The library staff hopes to expand the program to all of the library locations as funding becomes available. They’d like to bring in presenters to talk about various topics, along with local musicians and other performers to offer entertainment.
For a schedule of upcoming cafe programs, visit dmpl.org/events. For questions about volunteering, participating or donating to the cause, email McCauley at JEMcCauley@dmpl.org.
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